test: speed up tests (#1181)

Parallelize isolated workflow tests, consolidate redundant fixtures, and replace fixed waits with deterministic synchronization. Keep the readable curl service probe and use `getent` for hostname resolution.

Measured on the same machine with `make test`:

1. Wall time: 170.50s to 136.12s, down 34.38s or 20.2%.
1. `act/runner`: 138.417s to 124.291s, down 14.126s or 10.2%.
1. `act/runner` coverage: unchanged at 85.2%.
1. `TestDockerExecAbort`: 2.514s to 0.012s package time.

Stability checks:

1. Cancellation and deadline tests: 100 race-enabled repetitions.
1. Host runner suite: 10 race-enabled repetitions.
1. Changed Docker fixtures: 3 consecutive repetitions.

Full race suite, Go and Windows lint, source checks, and security scan pass.

Assisted-by: Codex:GPT-5
Reviewed-on: https://gitea.com/gitea/runner/pulls/1181
Reviewed-by: bircni <bircni@icloud.com>
Co-authored-by: silverwind <me@silverwind.io>

act/runner/testdata/matrix/push.yml

@@ -12,13 +12,13 @@ jobs:
     strategy:
       matrix:
         os: [ubuntu-18.04, macos-latest]
-        node: [4, 6, 8, 10]
+        node: [4, 10]
 
   test:
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
     strategy:
       matrix:
-        node: [8.x, 10.x, 12.x, 13.x]
+        node: [8.x, 13.x]
     steps:
       - run: echo ${NODE_VERSION} | grep ${{ matrix.node }}
         env: