test: speed up tests (#1181)

Parallelize isolated workflow tests, consolidate redundant fixtures, and replace fixed waits with deterministic synchronization. Keep the readable curl service probe and use `getent` for hostname resolution.

Measured on the same machine with `make test`:

1. Wall time: 170.50s to 136.12s, down 34.38s or 20.2%.
1. `act/runner`: 138.417s to 124.291s, down 14.126s or 10.2%.
1. `act/runner` coverage: unchanged at 85.2%.
1. `TestDockerExecAbort`: 2.514s to 0.012s package time.

Stability checks:

1. Cancellation and deadline tests: 100 race-enabled repetitions.
1. Host runner suite: 10 race-enabled repetitions.
1. Changed Docker fixtures: 3 consecutive repetitions.

Full race suite, Go and Windows lint, source checks, and security scan pass.

Assisted-by: Codex:GPT-5
Reviewed-on: https://gitea.com/gitea/runner/pulls/1181
Reviewed-by: bircni <bircni@icloud.com>
Co-authored-by: silverwind <me@silverwind.io>

act/runner/testdata/issue-597/spelling.yaml

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-name: issue-597
+name: issues-597-598
 on: push
 
 
@@ -13,6 +13,9 @@ jobs:
       - name: My first true step
         if: ${{endsWith('Hello world', 'ld')}}
         run: echo "Renst the Octocat"
+      - name: My second true step
+        if: "!endsWith('Hello world', 'od')"
+        run: echo "Renst the Octocat"
       - name: My second false step
         if: "endsWith('Should not evaluate', 'o2')"
         run: exit 1